Aunt Vadge offers general advice only – we cannot diagnose or treat any medical condition! If you are bleeding heavily, have torn yourself badly, or feel unwell, please see your doctor or emergency room. 

Before you write to us, check what others have written about below first, particularly concerning vaginal fissures and fingering wounds.

Information we need:

  1. Problem
  2. Timeline
  3. Changes
  4. Treatments
  5. Symptoms – pain, discharge, bleeding, growths, cuts
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  8. Your identity remains private at all times!

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  • It is your responsibility to see your healthcare provider in person for their opinion on your health.
  • By submitting a question to Aunt Vadge, you understand that we are not doctors, and cannot diagnose or treat any medical condition.
  • We are qualified naturopaths, and offer general advice only based on the information given, which is completely free, in exchange for publication by All Things Vagina.
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  • We cannot offer advice for emergencies.

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