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She was fingered, and now her vagina is itchy. Plus, can a doctor tell?
Hi there Aunt Vadge, My boyfriend rubbed my private parts near the opening. He didn't penetrate me. He most probably released his precum while doing it. It was during my ovulation period I think. My period is irregular, so I'm kinda lost. Anyway, I got dressed...
Her boyfriend just put the tip in, for the very first time, and there was blood and pain, but is she pregnant?
Hi Aunt Vadge, So I was recently at a hotel and I washed up, but I was rushing and kind of washing down there hard, and afterwards my vagina had became dry. The next day it was sore and itchy, then the itching stopped, and every time I wash or touch it, it hurts ....
Is she too tight or does she need to be more turned on? We discuss.
They tried to have sex, she was fingered, and now she has bleeding, itching, and a foul smell. What’s wrong?
She isn’t sure if the bleeding she is experiencing is her period or was caused by her boyfriend’s penis.
A 17-year-old guy has a girlfriend with previous sexual trauma, and he wants to know how to help her when it comes to sex. We discuss.
Mysterious vaginal fissures are appearing relentlessly after sex. What’s wrong?
A 14-year-old wants to know if her hymen still exists and what sex will feel like. We explain.
Her yeast infection treatment hasn’t really solved the problem entirely, so what should she do?
A woman doubled up on her tampon, but then once both were out, the next tampon she put in caused immense pain. What’s going on?
Can a tongue cause vaginal bleeding?
She isn’t sure what’s causing the dry white patch on her labia. Could it be sex?
She tore herself by mistake, and is wondering if it’s ok to use tampons.
A young woman has what appears to be a post-antibiotics yeast infection. Here’s how to fix it.
A micro-trauma to the clitoris won’t go away. We discuss.
A 58-year-old woman is experiencing unusual cuts, bleeding, and pain in and around her vagina and anus.
She is now getting more frequent UTIs, and sometimes a small cut on her clitoral hood attachment. Why?
Her vulva is randomly sore for no particular reason that she can identify. What’s wrong?
She has a bad diet and a bad vag. We discuss her options.
A guy wants to know what’s happening when his girlfriend’s vagina goes dry during foreplay.
After a severe UTI, she has pain when she pees and has sex – what’s wrong and how can she fix it?
A woman has recurrent BV and isn’t sure what to do.
She feels pain with two fingers or a carrot, but isn’t sure why. Is it her hymen, or something else?
She has suddenly become less juicy than she once was – what’s happening?
A woman is wondering if it’s possible to just not enjoy vaginal sex, but love oral and fingering. The answer is yes!
It’s pretty hard to get an STD from kissing alone.
A guy is having trouble with premature ejaculation.
A 48-year-old woman is suffering an itchy vaginal opening and a mysterious cut. What’s wrong?
Passing on infections is easy, and yes, you can catch an STD from rubbing genitals. Lots of them, actually.
Her boyfriend stimulated her urethra through her clothes, and now she’s bleeding and it stings to pee.
A 15-year-old has hurt herself masturbating when she wasn’t wet enough.
Hi Aunt Vadge, Me and my boyfriend (first one) have been together about four months and we've started 'doing stuff'. I fully trust and love him and want to do stuff with him but I keep getting so scared it's going to hurt. He tried to finger me but I couldn't cope...
A 25-year-old has a pinching feeling when inserting tampons. What is it?
A 16-year-old has a bad smell coming from her vagina, a smell so strong it comes out through her trousers.
Is she bleeding from a sex wound or from irregular periods? We discuss.
Hi Aunt Vadge, good day! I've been fingered by my boyfriend a number of times. I'm 18 years old. He is the first person who has touched my vagina. We did it so many times and it didn't bleed. I'm just wondering if the time comes when he would put his penis inside me,...
She’s had an abnormal smear result and two biopsies, and she wants recommendations on remedies to help before her test results.
She has bloating, gas, and a sore lower back, all from first-time sex. What’s happening?
She has been fingered, but there is only bleeding – no pain, no discomfort. Why is this happening?
She has an itchy vulva that isn’t responding to prescribed medications.
A young man is wondering how the vagina works – can the tip of a penis just slip in like a silent creeper without a girl knowing about it?
Dear Aunt Vadge, Can a condom be used on my penis for STI prevention when having sex with a virgin girl, considering the tightness of her vagina? Yours, Straight Man Age: 25 Country: Africa _____ Dear Straight Man, You should definitely wear a condom when you have...
A woman has ended up with cuts and nerve pains after masturbating with an ice cube.
Her vaginal fluids have become thinner and less copious . Why?
She just masturbated for the first time, and has noticed the insides of her vagina. What is it?
She was fingered roughly by her boyfriend and now she has cramping. Has she damaged her vagina?
A first-timer has questions about pressure on her organs, pain, and a small cut.
She slipped in the bath and cut her clitoris and labia. Will she be ok?