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Aunt Vadge: What is first-time sex supposed to feel like?
First-time sex can be a mix of excitement and anxiety. Understanding the physical sensations, from hymen stretching to the feeling of fullness and pleasure, is key. It's crucial to manage anxiety, use lubrication, and communicate with your partner for a comfortable and enjoyable experience. Learn practical tips for a positive first sexual encounter, including the importance of foreplay, using protection, and sexual hygiene.
Aunt Vadge: I put one finger in once and it bled
Experiencing slight bleeding after fingering for the first time can be worrying, but it's often a minor issue related to the hymen or lack of lubrication. Aunt Vadge offers advice on getting to know your vagina through safe exploration, using tools like a hand mirror and coconut oil for a better understanding of your anatomy. Learning about your body's response to stimulation and the importance of being aroused for comfortable exploration is key.
Aunt Vadge: I lack sexual confidence – help!
Aunt Vadge addresses a common concern among many women - sexual insecurity. Through practical advice and compassionate encouragement, she guides readers on a journey towards sexual confidence, emphasizing the importance of self-acceptance, vulnerability, and positive action. Whether it's dealing with body image issues or fear of intimacy, Aunt Vadge offers a roadmap to a more fulfilling and confident sexual life.
Aunt Vadge: I’ve got a bad smell coming from my vagina
A 16-year-old from England shares her distress over a persistent bad smell and discharge from her vagina, suspecting it's not normal. Aunt Vadge suggests it might be bacterial vaginosis (BV), a common vaginal infection that can occur without sexual activity, caused by a microbial imbalance. She emphasizes the importance of seeking medical advice for a proper diagnosis and treatment, including the potential use of vagina-friendly probiotics post-antibiotic treatment.
Aunt Vadge: I accidentally got poop in my vag
A simple mistake of wiping back to front after a bowel movement led to fecal bacteria causing irritation in the vagina, resulting in redness and itching. Despite initial treatment, the problem persists, indicating a potential imbalance in the vaginal microbiome. Seeking a comprehensive vaginal microbiome test and consulting with a specialist may provide the right diagnosis and treatment to resolve the issue.
Aunt Vadge: Unusual bleeding after dry, cracked fingering
A reader experiences unusual bleeding and clots after being fingered with dry, cracked fingers, raising concerns about potential vaginal damage and pregnancy risks. Aunt Vadge advises on the importance of gentle care, the use of lubrication, and when to seek medical attention for bleeding that could indicate more serious issues.
Aunt Vadge: vagina feels funny during fingering
Experiencing pain or discomfort during fingering can be perplexing, especially for those new to sexual exploration. Aunt Vadge discusses potential causes, from arousal and technique issues to possible anatomical abnormalities such as a vaginal septum. She advises seeking a pelvic examination to diagnose the issue accurately and emphasizes the importance of learning proper technique for pleasurable and safe sexual experiences.
Aunt Vadge: endless yeast infections after antibiotics
Enduring yeast infections post-antibiotic use is a common but distressing issue. This comprehensive guide delves into the gut's role in yeast proliferation and offers a multi-faceted approach to combat the problem. From specific probiotics to biofilm disruptors like InterFase Plus, learn how to address the underlying cause in the intestines and achieve lasting relief. Dietary adjustments and practical tips for managing symptoms are also covered, providing a roadmap to recovery.
Aunt Vadge: sex hurts every single time and now it just hurts all the time
Dealing with painful sex and vaginal tears can be distressing, but Aunt Vadge offers compassionate and practical advice to heal and prevent future discomfort. From prioritizing healing to exploring gentle, lubricated intimacy, this guide supports a journey towards pain-free sexual experiences. Learn how to care for your vulva, engage in beneficial foreplay, and communicate effectively with your partner for a healthier, more enjoyable sex life.
Aunt Vadge: long-running cut and thickened vulvar skin
A 57-year-old from the UK shares her concerns about a persistent cut and thickened skin above her clitoris, seeking advice from Aunt Vadge. The response highlights the importance of seeing a vulvovaginal specialist, managing stress, and considering potential conditions like lichenoid conditions or dermatitis. Stress management, proper diagnosis, and self-care are emphasized as crucial steps for recovery and maintaining vulvar health.
Aunt Vadge: post-sex and fingering blood and swelling
If sex or fingering causes pain and bleeding, it's a sign of incorrect practice. Discover how proper arousal, foreplay, and understanding your body can lead to enjoyable, pain-free sex. Aunt Vadge advises on the importance of being fully aroused and wet before penetration to prevent damage, and the need for personal exploration to understand what truly turns you on. Learn to communicate your needs and explore non-penetrative sex to build arousal, ensuring a satisfying sexual experience without pain or bleeding.
Aunt Vadge: Why did sex work the first time, but was impossible the second?
Aunt Vadge addresses concerns about painful sex, emphasizing the importance of relaxation, communication, and lubrication. She reassures that experiencing pain during sex is common but solvable with the right approach, including ensuring mutual enjoyment and experimenting with what feels good. The key is to make sex a pleasurable experience for both partners.
Aunt Vadge: my new girlfriend has major pain when I touch her vaginal entrance. Why?
Aunt Vadge advises on the common issue of vaginal pain in new relationships, emphasizing the importance of patience, understanding, and focusing on non-penetrative forms of pleasure. The response highlights the need for gentle exploration and the crucial role of communication and trust in overcoming discomfort, suggesting that the issue often lies not in the physical act but in the mental and emotional readiness of the partner.
Aunt Vadge: clitoral cuts, prosthetics and sex
A reader shares her concerns about vaginal fissures caused by sexual activity, seeking advice on healing and prevention. The response offers practical tips on care, the importance of appropriate lubrication, and strategies for comfortable sexual experiences despite physical challenges, emphasizing the significance of communication and confidence in overcoming anxiety and discomfort.
Aunt Vadge: fingering makes me want to pee
Many experience a sensation of needing to urinate while being fingered, often due to pressure on the urethra. Aunt Vadge explains this common issue and offers advice on re-associating this sensation with pleasure, emphasizing the importance of relaxation, arousal, and proper technique to overcome the discomfort and enjoy the experience.
Aunt Vadge: antibiotics for BV made everything worse and gave me a UTI
Robyn's tale unfolds a relentless battle with bacterial vaginosis (BV) exacerbated by antibiotics, leading to a UTI and a desperate search for lasting solutions. With a history of overusing antibiotics from Lyme disease to sinus infections, Robyn seeks Aunt Vadge's advice for a holistic approach to restore her body's balance and finally find relief from the recurring issues. Aunt Vadge's response offers not just empathy but a strategic plan to address the root causes, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's body and advocating for comprehensive care beyond temporary fixes.
Aunt Vadge: labia bumps and swollen clit with cuts
A young individual expresses concern over firm bumps around the vulva and a swollen clitoris with cuts, seeking advice from Aunt Vadge. The response emphasizes the importance of consulting a doctor for a proper diagnosis and treatment, especially when sexually transmitted infections could be a concern. The article also navigates the challenges of accessing healthcare at a young age and suggests seeking support from trusted adults or clinics like Planned Parenthood.
Aunt Vadge: Are these paper cuts herpes?
A reader confides in Aunt Vadge about experiencing paper cut-type cuts on the vulva after a yeast infection, questioning if it could be herpes. Aunt Vadge clarifies the typical symptoms of yeast infections, such as itching and paper cuts, and advises on distinguishing them from herpes, emphasizing the importance of testing for accurate diagnosis.
Aunt Vadge: weird dry, itchy bumps on my labia
Aunt Vadge addresses concerns about persistent itchy, dry bumps on the labia, discussing potential causes such as STIs, fungal infections, and skin conditions like genital psoriasis. She emphasizes the importance of seeing a doctor for a proper diagnosis and treatment options, including the possibility of steroid creams and naturopathic solutions.
Aunt Vadge: did my boyfriend’s tongue cause brown spotting?
Aunt Vadge addresses concerns about brown spotting following oral sex, explaining it's likely unrelated and could be ovulation spotting or the onset of a period. She offers advice on tracking menstrual cycles and recognizing ovulation signs to better understand the body's natural rhythms.
Aunt Vadge: if my hymen is gone, does that mean I’m not a virgin anymore?
The concept of virginity and the role of the hymen is surrounded by myths and misconceptions. Aunt Vadge clarifies if sexual activities like being fingered impact your virginity status and explains that the presence or absence of a hymen doesn't define virginity. Discover the true meaning of virginity, how it's not solely tied to vaginal-penis intercourse, and why the hymen's condition is not an accurate marker of sexual experience.
Aunt Vadge: which BV treatment is right for me?
Navigating the complex world of bacterial vaginosis (BV) treatments can be daunting. Aunt Vadge offers insights into personalised, effective solutions, including the innovative 3 Ls treatment and the use of oral probiotics for vaginal health. Discover how to tackle BV with a focus on immune system support and the right probiotic selection, ensuring a balanced vaginal flora and a happier, healthier you.
Aunt Vadge: white stuff and tears on my clitoral hood
Aunt Vadge addresses concerns about a white, cottage cheese-like substance and small tears around the clitoral hood, suggesting it may be a minor yeast infection. She offers home remedies, dietary advice, and cautions against over-cleaning, emphasizing gentle care and natural antifungals to avoid drug resistance.
Aunt Vadge: small, red, tender lump near clitoris
A small, red, tender lump near the clitoris can be concerning, but it's often a simple pimple or ingrown hair. Aunt Vadge explains how to identify and treat these common issues safely at home, ensuring hygiene to prevent infection. There's no need for panic; with proper care, the discomfort and the lump itself will typically resolve.
Aunt Vadge: has fingering ruined my vagina?
Anxiety and concerns over vaginal health after rough fingering are addressed by Aunt Vadge, offering reassurance and advice on managing both physical and mental well-being. The response highlights the resilience of the vagina, the importance of managing anxiety, and practical tips for overall reproductive health.
Aunt Vadge: I got Implanon, and now I’m feeling crappy
The Implanon contraceptive implant, secreting progestin, can significantly alter menstrual cycles and potentially lead to mood changes and decreased libido. While some women adapt well, others may find the side effects challenging, prompting a reevaluation of contraceptive choices. This article delves into the function of progestin, its impact on the body, and personal experiences with Implanon, offering insights into alternative contraception methods and the importance of a healthy menstrual cycle.
Aunt Vadge: did I rip my hymen masturbating?
A young individual reaches out to Aunt Vadge with concerns about potentially damaging their hymen during masturbation. Aunt Vadge reassures that self-exploration is natural at any age and offers guidance on how to safely explore one's body, emphasizing the importance of lubrication and the self-healing nature of vaginal and vulvar tissues. The response includes advice on stretching the hymen and reassurance about the body's ability to heal.
Aunt Vadge: I’m scared of my doctor doing a pelvic exam
Navigating the fear of pelvic exams can be challenging, especially for young women with concerns about pain and privacy. This article offers compassionate advice and practical strategies to help overcome these fears, including communicating with your doctor, the role of a female nurse, and considering appointments in other towns. It emphasizes the importance of pelvic health checks while providing reassurance about common worries, such as the speculum's size and preserving virginity.
Aunt Vadge: Am I pregnant?
Experiencing a delayed period can be stressful, especially with negative pregnancy tests. Aunt Vadge reassures that proper condom use makes pregnancy unlikely and highlights how stress and lifestyle factors can delay ovulation and, consequently, menstruation. She advises on relaxation techniques to manage stress and reassure that occasional irregular cycles are normal.
Aunt Vadge: my vagina doesn’t get wet
Vaginal dryness can be a distressing issue, impacting enjoyment and comfort during sex. This article explores practical solutions, including dietary adjustments and the potential benefits of L-arginine supplements, to address the problem. Enhancing blood flow and nitric oxide production might just be the key to improving vaginal lubrication and overall sexual function.
Aunt Vadge: have I ruined my labia by masturbating?
A reader expresses concern over changes in her labia due to masturbation, fearing permanent damage. Aunt Vadge reassures, explaining the resilience of vaginal anatomy, the normalcy of variation, and offers practical advice for healing and care. She emphasizes the importance of perspective, the use of lube to reduce friction, and consulting a sexual health clinic for peace of mind.
Aunt Vadge: I’m breastfeeding and my BV won’t go away
A 24-year-old mother from Texas shares her battle with recurrent BV since giving birth, exploring the impact of breastfeeding, hormone fluctuations, and the efficacy of boric acid and probiotics. Aunt Vadge offers comprehensive advice on distinguishing between BV and AV, the role of oestrogen in vaginal health, and a two-week treatment plan that includes vaginal probiotics and dietary changes to support lactobacilli growth and manage symptoms.
Aunt Vadge: my BV medicaid fell through – what can I do?
Facing the challenges of treating bacterial vaginosis (BV) without Medicaid can be daunting. This article explores effective, affordable solutions for managing BV, including the use of metronidazole and natural flora balance. It also emphasizes the importance of understanding vaginal health and seeking regular reproductive care to prevent recurrence.
Aunt Vadge: can I use ‘womb pearls’ to treat BV?
A detailed inquiry into the efficacy and safety of 'womb pearls' for treating Bacterial Vaginosis (BV) reveals the dangers and misconceptions surrounding such treatments. Aunt Vadge advises against their use, highlighting the lack of scientific backing and potential for harm. Instead, she emphasizes the importance of patience, proper education, and consistency in pursuing legitimate and safe methods like kefir fermentation for managing BV.
Aunt Vadge: my legs shake when my clit is stimulated – can I make it stop?
Experiencing leg shakes during clitoral stimulation is linked to the nervous system and is quite common. This phenomenon can be managed through desensitisation techniques and by addressing dietary factors to support nerve function. Aunt Vadge offers insights into why this happens and provides practical advice on managing and potentially overcoming this response, highlighting the importance of nutrition, nerve desensitisation, and the natural maturation process.
Aunt Vadge: was he too rough or was it my hymen?
A young woman experiences bleeding after being fingered aggressively, sparking concerns about whether it was due to hymenal damage or a scratch. Aunt Vadge explains the likely causes and reassures that proper technique in the future can prevent such occurrences, emphasizing the importance of gentle handling and understanding one's body.
Aunt Vadge: it burns and tingles after fingering
Aunt Vadge addresses a common concern among sexually active individuals: a burning or tingling sensation after fingering. She suggests that lingering bacteria from a urinary tract infection or a disrupted vaginal microbiome could be the culprits. Recommending a comprehensive vaginal microbiome report and a course of probiotics targeted at vaginal flora, Aunt Vadge provides actionable advice to alleviate the symptoms and promote vaginal health.
Aunt Vadge: I got touched through my clothes and now it’s bleeding and sore
An 18-year-old shares her distressing experience of pain and bleeding after her boyfriend fingered her through clothing, seeking advice from Aunt Vadge. The response highlights the importance of sexual safety, the anatomy involved, and practical steps for recovery and future sexual experiences.
Aunt Vadge: Are my cuts really from another yeast infection?
An 18-year-old from England shares her distress over recurring yeast infections and labial cuts, despite using thrush treatments. Aunt Vadge advises a holistic approach, including a probiotic regimen and N-acetylcysteine (NAC) to combat biofilms and yeast overgrowth, highlighting the importance of dietary adjustments and seeking a supportive healthcare provider.
Aunt Vadge: I’m scared I have herpes, but could it be yeast?
A 21-year-old expresses fear over symptoms that mimic herpes but are likely a chronic yeast infection. Aunt Vadge reassures and provides a comprehensive home treatment plan focusing on dietary changes and probiotics to combat the yeast infection, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's body and not fearing the diagnosis.
Aunt Vadge: I only do anal with my boyfriend to stay a virgin, but it hurts
The article addresses the discomfort and pain associated with anal sex for a 19-year-old seeking to maintain her virginity while pleasing her partner. Aunt Vadge offers advice on communication, trust, and tips for a better anal sex experience, emphasizing the importance of comfort, consent, and enjoyment in any form of intimacy.
Aunt Vadge: am I entering early menopause?
At 40, after a hysterectomy with ovaries intact, experiencing severe night sweats and bladder control issues raises concerns of early menopause or other hormonal imbalances. Consulting a doctor for hormone level checks is crucial to determine the cause and receive the right guidance.
Aunt Vadge: are there women who don’t like vaginal sex?
Aunt Vadge addresses a common query: Are there women who don't enjoy vaginal sex, preferring other forms of stimulation like oral and fingering? She reassures that sexual preferences vary widely, and what matters most is mutual satisfaction and exploring what works for you. Normality in sexual pleasure is diverse, and communication with your partner is key to a fulfilling sexual relationship.
Aunt Vadge: neverending itch
A comprehensive guide by Aunt Vadge addressing a persistent vaginal itch, exploring potential causes like inflammatory dermatitis, stress, and dietary factors. It includes practical advice on managing the condition through diet, supplements, and soothing external treatments, while also considering the possibility of underlying conditions such as allergic contact dermatitis or lichen sclerosus.
Aunt Vadge: unusual itching that just won’t go away
A detailed account of a woman's relentless vulvar itch, exploring potential causes such as bacterial vaginosis, dermatitis, and lichenoid conditions. The article delves into the complexity of diagnosing and treating genital itching, highlighting the importance of considering various factors from hygiene practices to the possibility of contact dermatitis and the role of a dermatologist in identifying skin-related conditions.
Aunt Vadge: my vagina and bottom have been itchy for years
Vaginal and bottom itching can be caused by a variety of conditions such as yeast infections, bacterial vaginosis (BV), sexually transmitted infections (STIs), allergic reactions, skin conditions, haemorrhoids, vaginal pinworms, and more. It's crucial to identify the cause to seek appropriate treatment. This article explores these common culprits and offers advice on managing symptoms, including when to see a healthcare professional for a proper diagnosis and treatment plan.
Aunt Vadge: his hand was covered in blood but there was no pain
A reader describes a concerning incident of significant vaginal bleeding without pain during an intimate moment, sparking a discussion on potential causes such as unnoticed injuries, cervical conditions, and the importance of gentle handling to prevent such occurrences. Aunt Vadge offers insights into why this might happen and advises on monitoring for patterns that could indicate underlying issues.
Aunt Vadge: tears, bleeding, itching, irritation – what’s wrong?
A 58-year-old diabetic woman experiences razor-like tears, itching, inflammation, and bleeding in the vaginal area, with potential causes including low oestrogen levels, fungal infections, and dermatitis reactions. The importance of a supportive diet, hypoallergenic products, and seeking a second medical opinion for a comprehensive diagnosis and treatment plan are highlighted.
Aunt Vadge: deep cut on inner labia – will it heal by itself?
A deep cut on the inner labia, though alarming, often heals well on its own, akin to mucous membrane injuries elsewhere. Immediate care involves gentle cleansing and avoiding irritation, with a visit to the doctor recommended if the cut worsens or fails to improve. Understanding the healing process and when to seek medical advice is crucial for recovery.
Aunt Vadge: masturbating with an ice cube has caused me pain in my legs and stomach
A 26-year-old shares her troubling experience with ice cube masturbation, leading to pain in her legs and stomach, and seeks advice from Aunt Vadge. The response highlights the importance of safe masturbation practices, the healing process for minor injuries, and encourages exploring new self-pleasure techniques without guilt.
Aunt Vadge: how can I help my girlfriend have a vaginal orgasm?
Discovering the path to vaginal orgasms involves understanding the unique anatomy of the clitoris and cervix, experimenting with g-spot stimulation, and embracing the journey of sexual exploration together. This guide offers practical advice for couples looking to enhance their sexual intimacy and experience new heights of pleasure by exploring the vast landscape of female orgasmic potential.
Aunt Vadge: my daughter wants to shave her bikini line but I’m scared for her safety
A concerned father contemplates the safety of his daughter shaving her bikini line at a young age. Aunt Vadge emphasizes the importance of teaching safe shaving practices, providing quality tools, and supporting her body autonomy.
Aunt Vadge: my boyfriend was rough on my clit, now it’s swollen
Experiencing swelling and discomfort after rough clitoral stimulation is common, but manageable. Aunt Vadge recommends using lubricating oils like coconut or olive oil to reduce friction, applying cold packs for swelling, and over-the-counter anti-inflammatories for pain relief. She emphasizes the importance of communication and setting boundaries with your partner to prevent future discomfort.
Aunt Vadge: a vaginal infection that won’t go away
A 19-year-old seeks advice for a relentless vaginal infection, having tried various home remedies and prescribed antibiotics without success. The response highlights the importance of accurate diagnosis, the potential need for specific tests to identify the infection type, and the risks of self-treatment without knowing the exact cause. The advice underscores the necessity of professional medical guidance to tackle such persistent infections effectively.
Aunt Vadge: can I use a snotty tissue to wipe after a wee?
Aunt Vadge addresses the potential risks of using a snotty tissue for wiping after a wee, highlighting the possibility of cross-contamination and the importance of using fresh tissue for personal hygiene. She emphasizes the balance between being environmentally conscious and maintaining personal health, suggesting alternative ways to reduce waste.
Aunt Vadge: can we use a condom if her vagina is really tight?
Using condoms during sex with a virgin or someone with a tight vagina requires attention to comfort and lubrication. Aunt Vadge advises on the importance of communication, the right type of lube and condoms, and the need for gentleness and patience to ensure a positive and pain-free experience. Learn how to make the first-time sex experience safe, enjoyable, and free from discomfort for both partners.
Aunt Vadge: clitoral hood tears returning
Clitoral hood tears, often resulting from masturbation, are a delicate issue many women face. This article provides comforting advice and practical steps for healing and prevention, emphasizing the normalcy of such occurrences and the body's ability to heal. It reassures readers that with gentle care, patience, and perhaps slight adjustments in practices, these tears can heal without the need for medical intervention.
Aunt Vadge: I fingered myself for the first time, and slimy, chunky white stuff came out
An 18-year-old expresses concern over encountering chunky white discharge after fingering for the first time. Aunt Vadge reassures that it might be normal vaginal secretions or a sign of a yeast infection, advising cleanliness and medical consultation if symptoms like itching or irritation occur.
Aunt Vadge: I took a dry tampon out and now I’m bleeding
Removing a dry tampon can cause discomfort and slight bleeding, a common issue for tampon users, especially beginners. Aunt Vadge advises on how to mitigate pain and assures that minor bleeding is not usually a cause for concern. She also debunks the myth of lake water worsening the condition, offering peace of mind and practical tips for tampon usage.
Aunt Vadge: back and abdominal pain, bloating, gas, after first-time sex
After first-time sex, it's not uncommon to experience mild abdominal pain, bloating, and minor vaginal bleeding. These symptoms can be alarming but often have simple explanations and remedies. From understanding the impact of sexual activity on your body to easy, at-home solutions like strong peppermint tea, Aunt Vadge provides insightful advice to navigate these new sensations. Whether it's identifying potential infections or learning more about your anatomy, this article is a comforting guide for those new to sexual experiences.
Aunt Vadge: fingering used to feel good, but now it hurts and burns
A shift from pleasure to pain during fingering can be perplexing and distressing. This article explores how hormonal fluctuations and personal mood can impact sexual enjoyment, offering insights into understanding and adapting to your body's changing needs. Learn why what felt good before may not feel the same now and how to navigate these changes for a more comfortable and enjoyable experience.
Aunt Vadge: I’m too scared of pain to have sex
Addressing the fear of pain in first-time sexual experiences, Aunt Vadge highlights the importance of relaxation, lubrication, and taking things slow. With practical advice on easing into sexual activity and ensuring comfort, the response aims to put minds at ease and make the first-time experience less daunting and more enjoyable.
Aunt Vadge: small dot on posterior fourchette that won’t go away
A 67-year-old woman seeks advice for a persistent sore dot on her posterior fourchette that appeared post-menopause, making sexual activities painful. Aunt Vadge suggests experimenting with a vaginal E3 oestrogen cream as a non-HRT solution, highlighting the importance of addressing low oestrogen levels and exploring natural phytoestrogens and regular sexual activity as methods to maintain vaginal health.
Aunt Vadge: we had sex with a condom but my period is late – am I pregnant?
A 15-year-old girl shares her concern about a late period following protected sex with her boyfriend, seeking advice on the possibility of pregnancy. Aunt Vadge reassures her, explaining the unlikelihood of pregnancy under these circumstances and emphasizing the importance of understanding ovulation cycles and the factors that can cause period delays, such as stress and lifestyle changes.
Aunt Vadge: naked grinding with precum – can I be pregnant?
A 20-year-old from South Africa shares her concerns about the possibility of pregnancy from precum during naked grinding, despite being on birth control and receiving a negative pregnancy test. Aunt Vadge provides insightful advice on understanding fertility, the effectiveness of birth control pills, and the importance of using period tracker apps to monitor ovulation and menstrual cycles. This guidance aims to alleviate fears and promote informed decisions regarding sexual health and contraception.
Aunt Vadge: is there some kind of cherry to pop?
Aunt Vadge addresses a common concern among virgins about the hymen and 'popping the cherry.' With a focus on the importance of arousal, understanding one's anatomy, and engaging in foreplay, the article provides insightful advice for a comfortable and pleasurable first sexual experience. It emphasizes that pain during sex is never normal and provides tips for self-exploration and communication with partners to ensure a positive and safe sexual journey.
Aunt Vadge: persistent BV despite numerous treatments
Dealing with persistent bacterial vaginosis (BV) can be a complex issue, involving factors like medication effects, underlying conditions, and the need for a holistic approach. This article delves into the intricacies of managing BV, offering expert advice on treatments, the impact of medications like hydrochlorothiazide and bioidentical hormones, and the potential benefits of non-drug management techniques. Whether it's adjusting your medication or exploring alternative therapies, find out how to tackle BV effectively and improve your vaginal health.
Aunt Vadge: why is my vagina always dry?
Vaginal dryness can be a symptom of menopause or perimenopause, caused by decreasing oestrogen levels. Treatments include oestrogen cream, natural remedies with phyto-oestrogens, and using specific vaginal moisturisers and lubricants to alleviate discomfort and improve moisture.
Aunt Vadge: I got too friendly with a Jacuzzi and hurt myself
A 24-year-old from the USA shares her painful experience with a Jacuzzi jet leading to a sore and bruised vulva. Aunt Vadge offers expert advice on healing and caring for vulvar wounds, emphasizing the importance of tender loving care and preventive measures for the future.
Aunt Vadge: how do I remove dark spots on my labia?
Aunt Vadge addresses concerns about dark spots on the labia, explaining they are normal pigmentation changes. She emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and body positivity, discouraging the pursuit of unnecessary cosmetic procedures. The article encourages readers to appreciate their bodies as they are, highlighting the uniqueness and beauty of individual differences.
Aunt Vadge: Why is my vagina different after being fingered?
Aunt Vadge addresses concerns about vaginal changes after being fingered, explaining the role of the hymen and debunking myths about vaginal size. Learn how your body truly works and embrace the new version of your vagina with confidence.
Aunt Vadge: white bumps inside my vagina lips
The article addresses concerns about white bumps and red spots on the vagina lips, discussing potential causes such as waxing, sexual activity, and infections like chlamydia, yeast infections, and bacterial vaginosis. It emphasises the importance of maintaining a healthy bacterial balance, avoiding harmful substances, and seeking professional advice for treatment.
Aunt Vadge: a new tampon brand may not agree with my vagina
A 21-year-old experienced vaginal irritation and a tear after switching tampon brands, raising concerns about potential allergies or sensitivities. Aunt Vadge advises returning to a familiar brand or trying an organic option, and consulting a doctor if symptoms persist.
Aunt Vadge: will this cut on my clitoris ever heal?
A minor cut on the clitoris can be a source of concern, but the good news is that this area heals quickly, often without leaving a scar. Aunt Vadge reassures that with minimal care, such as keeping the area clean and avoiding any irritation, the cut will heal on its own in no time. She also advises on the importance of gentle treatment and communication with partners to prevent future injuries.
Aunt Vadge: I had sex the day my period ended – am I pregnant?
Taking Plan B can lead to hormonal changes, causing symptoms like sensitive nipples and irregular periods. While it's unlikely to ovulate right after your period, understanding your cycle and the effects of emergency contraception is crucial. If worried about pregnancy, a home test can offer peace of mind, but it's also important to consult with a healthcare provider for personalized advice.
Aunt Vadge: there was blood after fingering, but no pain
A 15-year-old girl experienced unexpected bleeding after her boyfriend fingered her, with no associated pain. Aunt Vadge reassures her that this is likely due to hymenal remnants or minor, painless injuries within the vagina, and suggests ways to explore and understand their bodies better to prevent future bleeding and enhance their experience.
Aunt Vadge: pains in clitoris, vagina and labia after rough sex three months ago
Experiencing pain in the clitoris, labia, or vagina after rough sex can be alarming, potentially indicating tissue or nerve damage. Aunt Vadge advises seeking a gynaecologist's evaluation to understand the cause and find relief. The article discusses the importance of recognizing the body's pain response and the role of specialists in managing lingering pain, emphasizing the need for a thorough examination to diagnose and treat the discomfort properly.
Aunt Vadge: My boyfriend put his cummy fingers inside of me, now I have cramps
A 15-year-old girl experiences cramps and lower back pain after her boyfriend fingers her with semen on his hand, leading to fears of pregnancy and discomfort. Aunt Vadge explains the low risk of pregnancy in this scenario, the reasons for cramping, and advises on learning about ovulation and when to seek medical help.
Aunt Vadge: can a doctor see scars in my vagina?
Aunt Vadge addresses concerns about whether doctors can detect scars from vaginal tears, explaining how the healing process and the nature of vaginal tissue can affect visibility. She highlights that deep tears may leave more noticeable scar tissue, while many heal without scarring, thanks to the elasticity and unique structure of vaginal walls.
Aunt Vadge: fissuring that just won’t go away
A reader shares her distress over a recurring vaginal fissure that reopens after sex, despite taking precautions. Aunt Vadge offers insights into potential causes like musculoskeletal issues, protein deficiency, medication effects, and yeast infections. She suggests practical solutions including dietary adjustments, consulting specialists, and considering the impact of long-term medication use. The importance of addressing both partners' health to prevent yeast infections and the role of proper nutrition in healing and prevention are highlighted.
Aunt Vadge: yeast infection, now yellow discharge – what is happening?
A 19-year-old from Canada shares her concerns about persistent yellow discharge and bumps around her vagina despite treating a yeast infection with fluconazole. Aunt Vadge advises seeking a second opinion, considering other vulvovaginal issues, and the importance of accurate diagnosis and treatment.
Aunt Vadge: tear that hasn’t healed in three months
A three-month-old labial tear can indicate underlying health issues, from yeast infections to autoimmune conditions. Discover home care tips and the importance of medical consultation for persistent vaginal tears.
Aunt Vadge: cut over a vein – will it be ok?
A deep cut on the outer part of the vagina, especially over a vein, can be concerning. The key is to keep the area clean, avoid irritation, and use a small amount of natural oil to promote healing. For any signs of infection or if bleeding persists, seeking medical advice is crucial. Learn how to manage minor vaginal cuts effectively for a speedy recovery.
Aunt Vadge: ripped my vagina during sex – what now?
Suffering from a vaginal tear during sex is not only painful but can lead to complications if not treated properly. This article offers essential advice on healing, preventing future injuries, and the importance of seeking medical advice to ensure your vaginal health is maintained. It highlights the need for proper lubrication, communication with your partner, and the significance of allowing your body to heal before engaging in sexual activity again.
Aunt Vadge: Did my boyfriend break my hymen?
A young woman experiences bleeding and pain after her boyfriend's fingering, suspecting a hymen tear. Aunt Vadge explains the possibility of hymenal stretching or tearing and offers guidance on healing and proper fingering techniques to prevent pain and injury. She reassures that hymens are elastic and that the body will heal, advising further consultation if problems persist.
Aunt Vadge: we’ve tried sex three times and it’s excruciating for her
Experiencing excruciating pain during sex is a sign that something is wrong. This guide provides essential advice on how to make sex enjoyable for beginners, emphasizing the importance of understanding female anatomy, arousal, and the need for mutual learning and communication. It highlights the necessity of stopping painful attempts at sex, learning about each other's bodies, and the potential need for medical investigation into anatomical issues.
Aunt Vadge: fingering woes
Experiencing light bleeding after fingering could be due to hymen stretching or a minor vaginal tear. It's crucial to go slow, use lubricant, and ensure nails are short and smooth for safe exploration. Discover how to navigate discomfort and understand your body's responses as you embark on your sexual journey.
Aunt Vadge: I did the antibiotics, but I’ve still got urinary tract symptoms – help!
After taking antibiotics for a UTI, Jade still experiences symptoms like burning during urination and frequent need to pee. Aunt Vadge suggests exploring causes beyond typical UTIs, such as ureaplasma or mycoplasma infections, interstitial cystitis, pelvic floor dysfunction, and post-infection inflammation. She offers practical advice and underscores the importance of seeking further medical evaluation for persistent urinary tract symptoms.
Aunt Vadge: I slipped – will my clitoris be ok or should I go to the hospital?
After a painful slip resulting in a clitoral injury, the concern is whether to visit a doctor. Aunt Vadge advises on home care and signs that necessitate professional medical attention, emphasizing the importance of cleanliness, minimal contact, and natural anti-inflammatories for healing.
Aunt Vadge: urethral problems, bladder problems, no diagnosis for lump
A 22-year-old woman shares her distressing experience with a growing urethral lump, causing sharp pain during urination, diagnosed as DSD but with unresolved issues. Aunt Vadge explores potential misdiagnoses like urethral prolapse and urethral diverticulum, emphasizing the importance of further investigation into uncommon conditions that could explain the symptoms.
Aunt Vadge: why do tampons hurt to put in?
Aunt Vadge addresses the concerns of a young girl experiencing discomfort with tampons and fingering, offering comprehensive guidance on sexual arousal, self-exploration, and the correct use of tampons. The article emphasizes the importance of understanding one's body and sexual preferences, the role of lubrication, and the journey to a pain-free and enjoyable sexual experience.
Aunt Vadge: my girlfriend’s vagina is dry and bleeds after fingering – what’s going on?
When fingering causes dryness and bleeding, it indicates a lack of arousal and the need for more gentle, wet contact. Understanding the importance of arousal and proper technique is crucial for pleasurable and safe sexual experiences. Aunt Vadge emphasizes the significance of communication and learning about sexual pleasure to prevent discomfort and injury.
Aunt Vadge: vulva scratch that won’t heal
A reader shares her concern about a scratch on her vulva that's healing slowly, highlighting the impact of menopause on skin healing. Aunt Vadge advises on natural oestrogen boosters and medical treatments to improve skin health and accelerate healing, emphasizing the importance of personalized care and dietary adjustments.
Aunt Vadge: bleeding, painful sex tear – do I go to the ED?
A painful experience involving a 2cm fissure from sex, leading to bleeding and severe pain, raises the question of whether to seek emergency department care or wait for natural healing. This article explores the urgency of medical attention for vaginal tears and offers advice on recovery.
Aunt Vadge: vaginal fistula from cancer needs care
A 65-year-old woman, suffering from a large vaginal fistula due to radiation damage from cervical cancer, seeks advice on managing her condition while waiting for surgery. Aunt Vadge offers comprehensive guidance on diet, oestrogen therapy, tissue repair nutrients, and the importance of emotional support, highlighting the severe quality of life impacts that can follow cancer treatments.
Aunt Vadge: yeast infection won’t go away
A yeast infection that refuses to clear up can be frustrating. Aunt Vadge advises on high-quality probiotics, dietary adjustments, and when to seek further medical advice. Cutting out carbs and sugars, alongside a regimen of potent probiotics, can offer significant relief and promote a healthy vaginal environment.
Aunt Vadge: I just got married, had sex 5 times in 24 hours, now I have a blister – why?
A newlywed experienced pain and developed a blister after having sex multiple times in a short period. The article addresses the importance of moderation, recognizing signs of infection, and the necessity of proper care and healing for the vaginal area. It emphasizes the need for lubrication, taking breaks, and learning about one's body to ensure a healthy and enjoyable sexual experience.
Aunt Vadge: masturbating causes me to have back pain for a week
A reader experiences back pain and tightness for up to 10 days after masturbation, questioning the normality of this response. Aunt Vadge suggests this abnormal reaction might be due to back or spinal issues and recommends consulting an osteopath or chiropractor for a proper diagnosis and treatment. The importance of discussing sexual stimulation effects with a healthcare provider is emphasized to address and resolve the discomfort.
Aunt Vadge: toy mishap
Following a minor mishap with a sex toy resulting in a vaginal tear, Aunt Vadge offers comprehensive advice on care, healing, and prevention of further injury. Emphasizing the resilience of vaginal tissue and the importance of avoiding sexual activity until fully healed, Aunt Vadge reassures that with proper care, such wounds heal quickly and without complications. Tips on monitoring the healing process and maintaining vaginal health are also provided, alongside encouragement for exploring non-penetrative sexual activities during the recovery period.
Aunt Vadge: why did I bleed a few days before my period was due?
Aunt Vadge addresses concerns about bleeding a few days before the expected period, explaining the variability of menstrual cycles and when to actually worry. The article demystifies pre-period bleeding, reassures on the normalcy of cycle changes, and highlights the importance of understanding one's own body and menstrual health.
Aunt Vadge: is it herpes? Or something?
Aunt Vadge addresses concerns about a lump on the labia, explaining why it's unlikely to be herpes, discussing possible causes, and advising on next steps. The article demystifies symptoms and encourages getting medical records for clarity.
Aunt Vadge: I have bloating after dry humping – am I pregnant?
Aunt Vadge reassures a 24-year-old from India who experienced bloating and vaginal irritation after dry humping that pregnancy in this scenario is extremely unlikely. She explains that sperm need to be deposited directly into the vagina in sufficient quantity to cause pregnancy, a scenario not facilitated by clothing barriers and the timing of the sexual activity in relation to the menstrual cycle. The article also addresses concerns about vaginal irritation and offers advice on sexual health and contraception.
Aunt Vadge: 1.5″ tear on labia – see the doc or not?
Experiencing a significant labia tear can be alarming, especially when it's a result of a sexual accident. This article delves into how to assess the severity of a labia tear, distinguishing between situations that require medical attention and those that might heal with proper home care. It emphasizes the importance of monitoring for signs of infection and provides guidance on when to seek professional help, ensuring readers are equipped to make informed decisions about their health.
Aunt Vadge: what should I expect from first-time sex?
Embarking on your first sexual experience is a significant step filled with many questions and concerns. From the importance of using protection to prevent pregnancy and STIs, to understanding the role of pubic hair in sexual pleasure, and addressing common worries about vaginal tightness and the hymen, this article offers comprehensive advice to ensure a safe, enjoyable, and informed first-time sexual encounter. Learn the importance of communication, preparation, and mutual understanding with your partner for a fulfilling experience.
Aunt Vadge: When my penis goes into my lover’s vagina, I ejaculate too quickly – help!
Premature ejaculation is a common issue faced by many, but with patience, practice, and the right approach, it can be overcome. Learn muscle, nerve, and brain training exercises, explore alternative methods to satisfy your partner, and join forums for support and advice. Remember, achieving mutual sexual satisfaction is a journey of exploration and learning.
Aunt Vadge: I kissed my girlfriend’s vagina and now it’s bleeding – help!
A worried boyfriend seeks advice after his girlfriend experiences unexpected vaginal bleeding following oral sex. Aunt Vadge reassures and educates on the delicate nature of vaginas, the improbability of gentle oral sex causing such an issue, and explores other potential causes including menstrual cycles and accidental harm. The importance of understanding and respecting the body's reactions is emphasized, alongside a call to educate oneself on safe sexual practices.
Aunt Vadge: trans man with a glans cut that won’t heal
A trans man struggles with a slow-healing cut on the glans, revealing the critical role of oestrogen in genital tissue repair. Learn about the use of oestrogen cream and other supportive treatments to address this issue, offering insights into managing low oestrogen levels and preventing atrophic vaginitis.
Aunt Vadge: I’m a guy with some questions!
Aunt Vadge answers queries on the unique sensations women feel during intimacy, discussing the importance of understanding and exploring the diverse aspects of female pleasure. From the sensitivity of the vulva and clitoris to the significance of communication and consent, this comprehensive guide illuminates the intricacies of female sexual arousal and satisfaction.
Aunt Vadge: Can I use castor oil as lube?
Considering castor oil as a natural lubricant? Aunt Vadge delves into the benefits and drawbacks of using castor oil in intimate areas. Learn why castor oil is fantastic and why it might be an issue for some people. Choose your lube carefully!
Aunt Vadge: when I masturbate with one finger, I always bleed. Why?
A 17-year-old from the United States shares a perplexing issue of bleeding during masturbation without pain, despite not being a virgin and not experiencing bleeding during sex. Aunt Vadge suggests a methodical approach to identify the source of the bleeding, considering the possibility of a painless polyp or cyst being the cause.
Aunt Vadge: Did I get my period from being fingered?
A 19-year-old inquires if the experience of being fingered for the first time could cause her period to start early. Aunt Vadge explains that while sexual activity cannot trigger a period, it can make it appear sooner than expected due to the body's hormonal cycle. She emphasizes the importance of understanding one's own anatomy and the natural variability of menstrual cycles.
Aunt Vadge: I masturbated today and there was blood on my fingers – why?
Concerned about unexpected bleeding after masturbation? You're not alone. While it can be alarming, there are several benign reasons why this might happen, especially post-period. Whether it's residual menstrual blood, cervical changes, or simple friction, understanding the cause can ease your worries. However, if the issue persists, it's crucial to consult with a healthcare professional. Dive into our detailed exploration to shed light on this common concern and learn when it's time to seek medical advice. Stay informed and take charge of your reproductive health with confidence.
Aunt Vadge: am I late or pregnant?
A reader questions if a brief genital contact could lead to pregnancy, especially with an irregular menstrual cycle. Aunt Vadge advises on the likelihood and suggests a simple solution to ease worries - taking a home pregnancy test. This advice is particularly relevant for those with irregular periods, providing a quick way to ascertain pregnancy status.
Aunt Vadge: I douched with apple cider vinegar, and now I see a cut
A 48-year-old from Nigeria shares her experience of douching with diluted apple cider vinegar, leading to a cut and persistent itch near her vaginal orifice. Aunt Vadge explains the potential low oestrogen levels due to menopause as a cause, advising against douching and suggesting a visit to the doctor for a proper diagnosis and treatment options.
Aunt Vadge: we had safe sex but now my period is late – why?
A 16-year-old from Melbourne shares her anxiety over a late period despite practicing safe sex, prompting a detailed explanation on the variability of menstrual cycles, the importance of tracking ovulation, and the unlikely chance of pregnancy under her circumstances. Aunt Vadge reassures that changes in the menstrual cycle are normal and highlights the usefulness of a period tracker to understand one's body better.
Aunt Vadge: we had sex, but now my boyfriend has a red, itchy, sore penis – was it my thrush?
A reader expresses concern after her partner develops a sore, itchy rash following unprotected sex, suspecting her recent thrush infection might be the cause. Aunt Vadge explains how yeast infections can indeed be passed between partners, especially in susceptible individuals, and offers advice on treatment and prevention, including the use of anti-fungal ointments and dietary changes.
Aunt Vadge: micro-trauma to the clitoris after exercise that won’t go away
After an intense HIIT session, a woman experiences a micro-trauma to her clitoris, presenting as a small bruise. Despite using recommended soap and cream, the issue persists six weeks later, prompting concerns about healing time and whether a doctor's visit is necessary again. Aunt Vadge advises that this extended healing period is unusual and recommends a thorough check-up to rule out other conditions and discuss any other symptoms.
Aunt Vadge: I’m worried that I hurt myself… or is it my period?
A young person's concern about bleeding after self-exploration leads to a reassuring explanation from Aunt Vadge, highlighting the natural variability of menstrual cycles and debunking myths around the hymen. The response underscores the importance of understanding one's body and period symptoms, encouraging the use of period tracker apps for better insight and management of menstrual health.
Aunt Vadge: vulvodynia and clitorodynia at the beach – can I do anything?
Dealing with vulvodynia and clitorodynia, especially at the beach, can be challenging. Aunt Vadge offers insights into potential triggers, including hormonal IUDs and tight clothing, and suggests reflexology as a possible method for temporary relief. With no one-size-fits-all solution, finding what works for your body is key. This article explores how reflexology, a practice that can be done anywhere, might help alleviate pain by targeting specific pressure points related to the vagina and clitoris.
Aunt Vadge: constant split in vulva during sex
Addressing vulva tears in older women can be challenging, yet with a combination of natural remedies, hormone therapy, and lifestyle changes, it's possible to strengthen vulvar tissue and enhance healing. From using products like Femular and Fennelope to incorporating testosterone in oestrogen creams and exploring near-infrared light therapy, this article offers a comprehensive guide to managing and preventing vulva tears, especially during menopause.
Aunt Vadge: She has ripped her vagina “masturbating” – is my fiance cheating on me?
A concerned individual suspects their fiancé of cheating after a series of genital health issues, including a torn vulva from masturbation. Aunt Vadge explains the possibility of such injuries during self-pleasure, the nature of UTIs and yeast infections, and stresses the importance of communication in relationships.
Aunt Vadge: my hymen split horse riding – will my future husband know?
Addressing concerns about hymen changes due to horse riding, Aunt Vadge reassures that hymen appearance varies greatly and emphasizes the importance of trust and respect in a marriage over the physical state of virginity. She also addresses common genital skin variations, encouraging self-acceptance and body awareness.
Aunt Vadge: did yoga tear my clitoris?
A reader shares her concern about experiencing clitoral pain and discomfort following pelvic yoga stretches, wondering if she has caused a tear. Aunt Vadge reassures her it's unlikely to be a tear but suggests the pain could be related to past clitoral adhesion surgery, scar tissue, or hormonal fluctuations. She recommends gentle care, possibly including topical treatments, and emphasizes the importance of consulting a healthcare provider or a specialist like a pelvic floor physiotherapist or osteopath for a tailored treatment plan.
Aunt Vadge: I’m scared sex stuff is going to hurt
Navigating the fear of pain during first-time sexual experiences can be daunting. Aunt Vadge offers insightful advice on understanding your body's reactions, the importance of relaxation and arousal, and practical steps to prepare for a pain-free sexual exploration. From examining the hymen to learning about the pelvic floor and the crucial role of getting turned on, this guide empowers you to approach your sexual journey with confidence and knowledge.
Aunt Vadge: sandy vag scratches or something worse?
After a beach day involving intimate contact, a young woman experiences stinging and irritation around her vulva, suspecting sand and fingering cuts. Aunt Vadge reassures her that these are common and will heal, advising cleanliness and learning proper technique to avoid future issues.
Aunt Vadge: clitoral cuts that won’t heal
A reader shares her distress over clitoral cuts caused by rough fingering, seeking advice from Aunt Vadge. The response emphasizes the importance of gentle care, avoiding irritants like baby wipes, and opting for natural oils for lubrication. The advice also touches on the significance of avoiding further irritation and the potential need for professional medical advice if healing doesn't occur. Suggestions for safer sexual practices to prevent such injuries are also provided.
Aunt Vadge: cuts of unknown origin
A 19-year-old from the UK shares her distress over recurring vaginal cuts, fearing herpes but suspecting her contraceptive pill's role in her symptoms. Aunt Vadge advises on the importance of proper diagnosis, the potential impact of hormonal birth control on vaginal health, and the steps to take towards healing, emphasizing the need for a balanced vaginal microflora and exploring non-hormonal birth control options.
Aunt Vadge: I’m bleeding heavily two days after being fingered – what’s happening?
A 19-year-old from the United States reports heavy bleeding two days after being fingered, a situation not related to her menstrual cycle. Aunt Vadge advises that while it may not directly be caused by the fingering, unusual heavy bleeding is a concern and recommends seeking medical examination to understand the underlying issue.
Aunt Vadge: Sex hurts and makes me bleed – what am I doing wrong?
Experiencing pain and bleeding during first-time sex can be distressing, but it's often due to vaginal tightness or anxiety. Learning to relax, understanding your anatomy, and proper preparation can significantly improve your experience. This article offers comprehensive guidance on navigating the complexities of first-time sex, addressing common concerns like vaginismus and anatomical abnormalities, and providing practical advice for a more enjoyable and less painful encounter.
Aunt Vadge: recurrent tears beneath clitoris
Recurrent tears beneath the clitoris can be alarming and uncomfortable, often resulting from irritation or incorrect cleaning practices. Understanding the anatomy, such as the role of the Skene's glands and the urethral opening, is crucial. This guide offers insights into potential causes and advises seeking a gynaecologist's opinion for persistent issues.
Aunt Vadge T&C
Aunt Vadge provides a free advice service by qualified naturopaths for your vagina queries. It's not a substitute for medical care, but offers general advice and insights to help you on your journey towards a healthy and happy vagina. Remember, if your problem is severe, seek immediate medical attention.
Aunt Vadge: my vulva is peeling and itchy, my clitoris painful
Experiencing an itchy vulva, peeling skin, and painful clitoris can be alarming. This guide discusses potential causes ranging from fungal infections to dermatitis and emphasizes the importance of seeking medical advice for accurate diagnosis and treatment options. Whether it's genital psoriasis or vaginal dryness, understanding your symptoms and consulting a healthcare professional is the first step towards recovery.
Aunt Vadge: I used hotel soap and now my vulva hurts
A reader experiences dryness, soreness, and itchiness in their vulva after using hotel soap, suspecting a reaction or a yeast infection. Aunt Vadge explains the likely cause is contact dermatitis from the soap's cheap ingredients and offers advice on soothing the irritation and preventative measures for the future.
Aunt Vadge: I have BV but nothing the doctor gave me works
A 17-year-old shares her struggle with persistent BV-like symptoms despite various treatments, revealing a potential misdiagnosis. The response highlights the complexity of diagnosing and treating vaginal infections, suggesting alternative causes like aerobic vaginitis or fungal infections. It emphasizes the importance of understanding the condition, exploring advanced testing methods like PCR, and considering the role of antibiotic resistance in treatment failures.
Aunt Vadge: why can’t I go deeper?
Experiencing vaginal tightness can be a barrier to a fulfilling sex life, but it's a common issue with various solutions. From using toys and lubricants to seeking professional medical advice, there are steps you can take to overcome this challenge. Learn how to explore your body safely, address potential medical concerns like vaginismus, and find the right support to enjoy intimacy without discomfort.
Aunt Vadge: When I sit down, my vagina gets hot – why?
Experiencing heat in the vaginal area while sitting, especially with legs crossed, can be due to restricted airflow, synthetic underwear, or increased blood flow. It's crucial to opt for breathable fabrics and maintain loose-fitting clothes to allow for better ventilation. However, if accompanied by symptoms like itching or unusual odour, seeking medical advice is recommended.
Aunt Vadge: can I catch an STD from a guy rubbing his penis on my vagina?
Aunt Vadge addresses concerns about catching STDs through genital rubbing and oral sex, highlighting the transmission risks of pre-cum, and the importance of using condoms and getting tested. She emphasizes that while some STDs can be treated, prevention is crucial, advising on contraception and safe sex practices.
Aunt Vadge: the condom caused cuts and sores – why?
Experiencing pain and discomfort from condom-induced cuts? Aunt Vadge offers expert advice on healing and preventing sores, highlighting the importance of lubrication and gentle care. Learn how to soothe your skin and what to avoid during recovery.
Aunt Vadge: last week fingering made me wet, but not now – why?
Aunt Vadge addresses a concern about sudden vaginal dryness despite arousal, explaining the natural cycle's impact on lubrication and suggesting cycle tracking to anticipate changes. She reassures that this is a common experience, potentially influenced by hormonal birth control, and advises patience and observation over a few months.
Aunt Vadge: 5-year-old with labial adhesion cracked labia
Labial adhesion in young girls can be a perplexing issue, often linked to a lack of oestrogen. Discover how incorporating soy-based whole foods into your daughter's diet, like tempeh or tofu, can introduce phyto-oestrogens to her system, potentially resolving labial adhesion without the need for hormonal creams. This article offers insight into the condition and natural management strategies, including dietary adjustments and the cautious use of plant-based oestrogens.
Aunt Vadge: why is my vagina suddenly black?
A sudden change in the colour of the vagina to black can be alarming and may indicate serious health issues. It's essential to seek medical advice promptly to determine the cause, which could range from damaged blood supply to severe bruising. Aunt Vadge emphasizes the importance of not delaying a visit to the doctor to ensure proper diagnosis and treatment.
Aunt Vadge: fingering scratch
A 19-year-old virgin experienced bleeding and burning after being fingered due to lack of lubrication and possibly a hymen tear. Aunt Vadge explains the common causes and advises on how to prevent discomfort and ensure a safer, more pleasurable experience.
Aunt Vadge: I have to ride a bike tomorrow, but I’ve cut my labia
Dealing with a labia scratch can be challenging, especially with an upcoming bike ride. Learn practical tips on protecting the area, from using sterile bandages to creating a soft buffer between you and the bike seat. Find out how to minimize irritation and explore options for pain relief to make your ride as comfortable as possible.
Aunt Vadge: fingering wound leaves flappy skin – cut or reattach?
A reader inquires about the best approach for handling a large, loose skin flap resulting from a fingernail cut near the clitoris and urethral opening. Aunt Vadge advises seeking professional medical help to possibly stitch the skin back before it's too late, highlighting the importance of quick action and professional assessment to prevent further complications.
Aunt Vadge: I masturbated and bled – have I hurt myself?
A young individual experienced bleeding after attempting to masturbate without being fully aroused, leading to concerns about potential vaginal damage. The advice given suggests that minor injuries from masturbation are often not severe and can heal on their own, with recommendations to monitor the situation and seek medical advice if symptoms worsen. The importance of recognizing the difference between injury-induced bleeding and menstrual bleeding is also highlighted.
Aunt Vadge: why does sex hurt my girlfriend so much?
Painful sex, known medically as dyspareunia, can stem from a lack of arousal, tension, or medical conditions like vulvodynia or vaginismus. Aunt Vadge advises on the importance of relaxation, foreplay, and understanding each other's bodies to overcome discomfort and improve sexual experiences. Exploring non-penetrative sex, focusing on pleasure over penetration, and seeking medical advice if necessary are key to a satisfying sex life.
Aunt Vadge: we used a condom, I had my period, could I be pregnant?
A concerned 16-year-old from Ireland reaches out to Aunt Vadge about the fear of pregnancy despite using a condom and having sex during her period. Aunt Vadge reassures her by explaining the improbability due to not ovulating during her period, the correct use of a condom, and the absence of ejaculation inside her. She advises on the importance of understanding ovulation cycles and using period tracker apps to know the safe days, thereby alleviating worries about unwanted pregnancy.
Aunt Vadge: fleshy bits come out of me after being fingered
Experiencing fleshy protrusions post-intimacy can be alarming. Aunt Vadge addresses concerns about rough sexual activities and their effects on vaginal health, emphasizing the importance of safe practices and when to consult a healthcare provider.
Aunt Vadge: on patch, but period is two days late
A 20-year-old from South Africa, using the patch for birth control and to manage ovarian cysts, expresses concern over a two-day late period despite negative pregnancy tests. Aunt Vadge reassures that hormonal contraception, when used correctly, is highly effective, but advises on potential hormonal interruptions and the importance of understanding one's body and the effects of artificial hormones.
Aunt Vadge: Pain with sex and peeing after a UTI
After experiencing a severe UTI, one might encounter ongoing discomfort during urination and sexual activity, potentially due to scar tissue or persistent inflammation. It's crucial to seek a specialist's evaluation to identify the underlying cause. Adjunct treatments like acupuncture, reflexology, and consulting with a herbalist or naturopath could offer additional relief and support during this challenging time. Remember, your pain is valid, and finding a practitioner who takes it seriously is key to your recovery.