Getting help with sticky problems
Good help can be hard to find online, because a lot of resources are quite formal and medical, while others are just opinions. Here you can find all the medical information plus the educated views of professionals who work with natural medicine.
Aunt Vadge is here to answer any of your questions, and to support you on your quest for information and solutions.
A 16-year-old has a bad smell coming from her vagina, a smell so strong it comes out through her trousers.
She has been fingered, but there is only bleeding – no pain, no discomfort. Why is this happening?
An 18-year-old guy is wondering if the tip of a penis can just slip in like a silent creeper without a girl knowing about it.
Dear Aunt Vadge, Can a condom be used on my penis for STI prevention when having sex with a virgin girl, considering the tightness of her vagina? Yours, Straight Man Age: 25 Country: Africa _____ Dear Straight Man, You should definitely wear a condom when you have...
She just masturbated for the first time, and has noticed the insides of her vagina. What is it?
These treatments are designed for minor irritations, like a post-antibiotic yeast infection. If you have a vaginal infection, please remember that some more serious conditions and infections mimic yeast infections and BV, and if you aren't sure or your problem isn't...
Confused about what to expect from your pelvic exam? We detail the doctor’s instructions.
There are a series of tests that may be conducted – find out what your test actually means and why it’s being done.
Getting an STI test is a good idea, especially if you (or your partner) likes sex with more than one person.
Some STIs are more common in lesbians and bisexual women than heterosexual women. We discuss why.
Pap tests are done periodically to check your cervix for abnormal changes that could lead to cervical cancer.
We take a closer look at how acne develops when you have PCOS.
Vaginal agenesis is the complete absence of a vaginal canal.
What to look at when periods don’t arrive on time.
Swyer syndrome means you are a chromosomal male (46, XY), but – aside from ovaries – the rest of you is 100% woman.
Injuries to the vagina, vulva and perineum vary, and impact on different structures.
Hiprex is a urinary antimicrobial agent – that doesn’t use traditional antibiotics – that has been proved successful in treating and preventing urinary tract infections.
She was fingered roughly by her boyfriend and now she has cramping. Has she damaged her vagina?
A first-timer has questions about pressure on her organs, pain, and a small cut.
Her vagina smells like something died up there when she gets her period. What is it and how can she fix it?
Dear Aunt Vadge, Ok so three months ago, my boyfriend fingered me, and the next day I noticed a tear in my labia minora. It didn't hurt though. But it didn't seem to heal. A couple weeks after, me and my boyfriend had sex even though I had a tear, and now it's a bit...
She was masturbating with the stream of a shower head and she tore her labia. What should she do?
A 15-year-old has tiny white bumps on her labia, and ongoing discharge. What’s happening to her?
Fordyce bumps are the tiny white spots that appear when the skin of the labia, scrotum, penis and nipples is stretched.
A 15-year-old and her boyfriend discovered bleeding after fingering. Was it her hymen, or something else?
A 13-year-old has what she thinks is a Bartholin’s duct cyst – how can she get rid of it herself?
A non-infected smelly vagina can be solved with some simple treatments at home to rebalance your bacterial colonies.
Were the tears caused by her Bartholin’s cyst, or is she too tight? We discuss.
Hi there Aunt Vadge, My boyfriend fingers me and it used to feel really good. I would get to a point where I would go crazy, and now the past two times it really hurts, and doesn't feel good, and I don't feel turned on at all. And he isn't doing anything different. It...
Been wondering what to do about your vag cuts and tears? We have a short list of what to do and how to deal with it so you get maximum healing.
A 20-year-old guy is freaking out after going down on his girlfriend, then… blood. What’s happened?
Can you get pregnant from a penis rubbing on a vagina? We discuss.
A 25-year-old is worried she has broken her labia masturbating.
Is it a chemical burn from antifungals? We discuss.
A 23-year-old has just been diagnosed with a double vagina, and wants information on the surgery to correct it.
Why she is or isn’t probably pregnant…
A bicycle accident has left a young lady with a split labia.
Is this lump herpes, a sebaceous cyst, an ingrown hair, or a pimple? We discuss.
A 16-year-old virgin has an accidentally torn hymen from her boyfriend’s penis. We discuss hymenal remnants.
A 72-year-old woman is battling with her fiance regarding oral sex and sexual intercourse.
An 18-year-old has tears and is scared that it might be herpes.
No, it’s not normal to bleed 3 days after being fingered, and pre-cum is fertile in many men.
A 20-year-old has a pinky-sized sore, itchy fissure in between her labia.
A cut is deeper than it should be – what should she do?
A 20-year-old is struggling with clitoral fissures and navigating sex as an amputee.
A college student pulled on her labia when she was younger, and now it’s bigger… why?
An 18-year-old is worried that her vagina is stretched after being fingered. True or false?
HS is a sweat gland condition that causes distressing symptoms that include abscesses and boils on the outer labia and other places.
A first-timer and her boyfriend are having problems getting his penis in without bleeding and pain.
Trouble orgasming is everyone’s problem.
Ever wondered what a penis or clitoris feels like? You have what you need to find out!
Allergic contact dermatitis can affect the vulva, and has a list of typical triggers.
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Urethritis simply means inflammation of the urethra, and has many causes.
A young lady wants to know what first-time sex feels like on your vagina.
A 15-year-old is having trouble with tampons falling out. See how she can fix it.
Why can’t a tampon just fall right out? We explain.
How to avoid grossing out the people you care about with your period.
Being a virgin is a complicated business these days.
A 19-year-old’s period came early after being fingered for the first time. Is that normal?
Is fingering and just the tip counted as losing your virginity? We discuss.
Her vulva swelled up to four times its normal size after being fingered. What has happened?
A girl is scared to get a wax in case it mean she is unfeminist. What should she do?
Clear instructions for removing an ingrown hair from your bikini line, and tips to prevent it in future.
Teenage girl has serious swelling and pain after vigorous fingering by her boyfriend. What should she do?
Yanking out a tampon has caused urinary and vaginal pain at her next period. Why?
What’s the story with pre-cum and pregnancy? We explain.
A virgin may still have an intact hymen. How will she know?
Don’t know how to have sex? We explain.
A smart, funny discussion of our complex relationship with our labia.
The basics of the fine art of cunnilingus explained.
A guide for guys on how to use their fingers to pleasure a woman.
A sweet and curious virgin is confused about what is supposed to happen after she is fingered by her boyfriend.
The oral contraceptive pill can be used as the morning-after pill – they are the same thing, just different doses.
The female condom IS an option!
A girl tries to discover if she has an infection or not.
A young lady is burning after being fingered during her period.
Don’t understand the hymen? You are not alone. It isn’t what you think!
Find out what you have to do to manage vulva psoriasis and reduce attacks.
A 16-year-old girl has a dry patch on her vulva that just won’t go away.
Get the guff on tampons and fingering gone wrong.
Fingering does not bring on your period, but why not? Find out how it works.
Should your first fingering be done with two fingers or one? Find out.
A 23-year-old is thinking about quitting sex altogether. Why would anyone do that?
A girl is getting some pain and burning after her boyfriend fingers her. Why?
Who wants to have sex with the disabled person? We do! Drop the stigma and get laid.
Toxic shock syndrome is a rare, deadly Staph infection that gets into the blood.
There are a few things you should keep away from your vagina. Like Coke bottles.
Quell the burn and fix up a UTI before it gets worse.
A list of possible causes why your period has stopped.
Clumps of blood after a rough finger – why is it happening? Find out.
A young lady bleeds after being fingered by a boy she likes. Find out why.
Safe tips on how to get your lost tampon out.
Choosing the right lube for the job is important.
Urethral syndrome is inflammation and irritation of the urethra, but without infection.
The Depo Provera contraceptive injection is given every three months, is very effective at preventing pregnancy, but comes with a host of negative side effects that you can’t undo until it wears off.
Having a whopping great bush or being smooth as a baby’s bottom: the choice is yours. Muffs ahoy!
Condoms aahhh yawwwn … Learn how to make condoms work for you, not the other way around.
Want to know what the inside of your vagina is made of?
Treating your UTI with reflexology isn’t the most pain-free process, but it works and it can be gone in half an hour.