The Simple Tear
If your cut or tear was caused by an identifiable action (sex, tampons, fingering, toys, fiddling) and stings, bleeds and is uncomfortable, it will heal by itself with no treatment in a few days to a week, depending how deep the tear is.
The deeper the cut, the longer it will take to heal, the longer it will bleed for, and the more uncomfortable it will be. Take a look in a hand mirror so you know what to expect based on how deep it is. The joins between the clitoral hood and labia, and the posterior fourchette, are all prone to being split or cut, even sometimes from the slightest pull in the wrong direction.
Vaginal skin heals very quickly, just like the mouth, so prevent further damage by avoiding contact.
- No sex, tampons, masturbating, lacy underwear.
- Keep it clean with daily showering or a rinse
- Go commando (no underwear) or wear comfortable underwear so it doesn’t catch or irritate the cut
- Keep an eye on it, but there is no need for concern with these types of cuts. Treat them like you would any other cut on your body – protect it, keep it clean, and don’t fret about it.
Posterior fourchette fissures (the fork in the bottom of the vaginal entrance) can start to branch into the realm of the Deep and Nasty Tear which you will need to treat differently.
If your cuts were caused by rough sex or fingers
Bleeding and pain after fingering is really common in sexually inexperienced women, who aren’t sure what’s supposed to be happening in their vagina. While it comes naturally to some, fingering is advanced sex, and takes a lot of practice to get right for most people.
See our Fingering Basics article for instructions for lovers on how to use fingers to pleasure a woman without causing bleeding and pain (you’re doing it all wrong). Additionally, sex should not leave you with wounds, so be gentle, communicate with your partner about what feels good and what doesn’t (even if it’s awkward – practice makes it less so), and make use of a good-quality lubricant.
Sex should never (unless you are being deliberately kinky) result in pain and bleeding. If you are getting sex wounds, perhaps it’s time to revisit Sex 101.
Damage caused by tampons
During your period, heavy or incorrect use of tampons can cause splits in the entrance to your vagina. This usually occurs when changing a tampon when the previous one isn’t completely full (still a bit dry), then putting another one in straight away. It can also happen when you are inserting tampons incorrectly. See our section on tampons if you are struggling.
These fissures should resolve quickly once your period is over, but it is important to learn how to correctly insert a tampon – it is not supposed to cause damage.(How to insert a tampon)
What a health professional can do for your cuts and tears
The medical way of dealing with vaginal cuts and tears – outside of those that require surgical or other serious medical intervention – is, like naturopathy, to let them heal by themselves.
Your doctor may – to speed up healing or prevent infection – prescribe anti-fungal cream or tablets for a yeast infection, antivirals for herpes, oestrogen cream for atrophic vaginitis, with topical steroids for dermatitis, psoriasis or lichenoid disorders usually prescribed. You may get topical anaesthetic and antibiotic creams or gels.
Your naturopath may offer you the same treatments, but in a herbal or other formula, depending on your diagnosis.
Think your fissure is different? Ask Aunt Vadge.